this is ruining my life
I love talking to ChatGPT to understand myself. it knows my ideas, ambition, thoughts, it is basically a journal to me.
I really wanted to start writing so I told ChatGPT a few of my ideas and to recommend me similar things.
what it suggested—
HOW LOW CONFIDENCE SHAPES WORKPLACE BEHAVIOUR?
Personal Attack much!!!!
I asked, what are your thoughts on this, and everything it said, felt like defining me.
I never thought of myself having low confidence (at this point), I just thought I have social anxiety.
One of the biggest issues in my life has been confidence.
I used to be a confident baby, then somewhere around middle school I lost it. I lost my confidence and at the ripe age of 29 I am still struggling, next year I will be turning 30.
and it’s embarrassing to be a 30 year old underconfident/inferior feeling being.
Nobody wants that.
so the traits chatGPT mentioned:
- communication
- boundaries with workload.
- career growth/ visibility
- relationships at work.
- self sabotage.
I check most of the boxes, it’s embarrassing and for all this the one to blame is—LOW CONFIDENCE.
honestly, If I could pay someone and get it fixed I would, but, we all know, it doesn’t works like that.
As someone who has lived their life feeling like the inferior being, I don’t know how I can change this.
I only have some idea, basically DISCIPLINE, to get really get good, at some things and prove your own self that, GIRL, YOU ARE IT!!!!
Will I Ever Be That Girl?
well, let’s find out.